The birds and the bees dont need any manual, any one to teach them the techniques of effortless, natural, pleasurable sex, so why do we? What we face, when we come face to face with another, is ourselves. I dare myself, i dare you, i dare everyone to come face to face with our true selves first, so that we can transform from looking to others for the love we so desperately seek, to realising that that same love already resides within. And sometimes the journey within seems so distant, so hard to grasp, beyond reach. For how can we know what it is that we will find within, how can we be inspired to look within, when most of us feel we’ve never been there before? Whats the spark that can turn us to face within and keep us there?
When we dare to slow down, tune into a different vibration than what we have been taught to believe in, tune into our own vibration, become more conscious of our own being and know as we have always known, the love, the power, the eternal flame that burns within us, this becomes our spark, our guide that shows us that we have always known the light that we are, but have forgotten. When we dare to slow down, we begin to recognise that we are unconditional nonjudgemental light, that we can begin again in our own time, at our own pace, when we know that we are ready, when it feels right inside, to love again, to love everything we see and scent, hear, taste and touch, everything that we feel emotionally, without reservation of any kind. We begin to be more conscious of and loving of ourselves, an evolving love, and we effortlessly become more conscious of the other; you reach out your hand, instinctively, playfully, to touch the other, to be seen for who you are, to be touched because you are who you are, then, in sex, the artist you are, will paint that picture that only you are capable of painting. This is the beauty of sex…. well, one of them anyway!!